Ask the Erotic Woman

"My boyfriend wants me to masturbate in front of him, but I feel too nervous to do it, even though I want to. What can I do?" - Roxy Day, Willowbank

“I have heard a lot about the G-Spot and how good G-Spot orgasms can be. Can you tell me everything I need to know about the subject, why the G-Spot orgasm is supposedly so good, and especially how to have one of these orgasms myself”

- May Keating, Long Branch, Etobicoke

"I am determined to stay a virgin until I get married, but I am with a guy I truly love and am worried if I can’t satisfy him sexually (without actual sex) he might get frustrated with me. I know guys like getting handjobs…can you give me some tips?" - Ella, Shelby County

"I suppose at my age I now fall into the “post menopausal” crowd; I feel like I have dried up and can no longer be the sexually fulfilled woman I once was. Is there any advice you can provide as to how older women can still be sexual creatures?” - Nina O, Andover

“I have been with my boyfriend for five years, and he is just terrible in bed. He is not attentive to my needs, does not seem to be interested in my pleasure and his lovemaking is just terrible. We always do it in the missionary position with little or no foreplay and it is over before I even get started! I am almost at my wits end. Is there any hope when a situation is this hopeless?” - Angie C. Hay, Billings

"My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, and we have been living together for the last 6 months. Things had been going along great until the last couple of months when our sex life has become almost non-existent. We used to have sex every day, now we barely do it every week. I think he has lost the desire for me. Is he cheating on me?" - Jo K, Walkers Flat

"I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and he has told me he wants to try anal sex. I have never done it before, and I’m nervous because I’ve heard about how much it hurts. I am curious though. Can you tell me some truths about anal sex and how to go about it for the first time?" - Thalia, Singapore

"After discussion with my husband I am considering completely shaving off my pubic hair. I have been thinking about it since my teenage years, but never quite got to it for whatever reason. What are your thoughts?" - Heather J, Newark

"My husband wants us both to join a Swingers Club. It is an exciting thought, but I am nervous to say yes because I know nothing about them. Can you tell me a little about what I could expect?" - Jackie, San Diego

Can you explain what the term “Deep Throat” means, and how do I do it? - Holly V, Newcastle