Advice

"My boyfriend wants me to masturbate in front of him, but I feel too nervous to do it, even though I want to. What can I do?" - Roxy Day, Willowbank

“Is there any truth to the idea that some foods have aphrodisiac qualities? I haven’t been able to find a definite answer, so please tell me what you know”
- Bungy, Wulguru, QLD.

“I have great sex with my girlfriend but for some reason oral sex is out of the question, she won’t go down on me. I have tried talking to her but she also won’t talk about it, so I don’t know what’s going on. Any advice?” - Derek, Palmdale

"This is a serious question. Should I hire a hooker to spend the night with us so I can give my husband the threesome he wants so badly?" - Wondering Star, AL.

"I am determined to stay a virgin until I get married, but I am with a guy I truly love and am worried if I can’t satisfy him sexually (without actual sex) he might get frustrated with me. I know guys like getting handjobs…can you give me some tips?" - Ella, Shelby County

"I suppose at my age I now fall into the “post menopausal” crowd; I feel like I have dried up and can no longer be the sexually fulfilled woman I once was. Is there any advice you can provide as to how older women can still be sexual creatures?” - Nina O, Andover

“My husband and I have an eleven month old daughter, our first, and our relationship is straining and our sex life is barely alive. Before I got pregnant we would have sex all the time, and now I feel so tired and pressured being a new mother, that we would be lucky to do it once a fortnight. We also just don’t get quality time together anymore. He is getting frustrated, and I am too. Can you give me some help?” - Erin Bradley, VMT

“I have been with my boyfriend for five years, and he is just terrible in bed. He is not attentive to my needs, does not seem to be interested in my pleasure and his lovemaking is just terrible. We always do it in the missionary position with little or no foreplay and it is over before I even get started! I am almost at my wits end. Is there any hope when a situation is this hopeless?” - Angie C. Hay, Billings

"My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, and we have been living together for the last 6 months. Things had been going along great until the last couple of months when our sex life has become almost non-existent. We used to have sex every day, now we barely do it every week. I think he has lost the desire for me. Is he cheating on me?" - Jo K, Walkers Flat

"I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and he has told me he wants to try anal sex. I have never done it before, and I’m nervous because I’ve heard about how much it hurts. I am curious though. Can you tell me some truths about anal sex and how to go about it for the first time?" - Thalia, Singapore