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One of the ways a woman gives herself a relaxing treat is by soaking in a long, hot bath so you can take this opportunity to really giver her a treat by preparing a bath for her. Of course, with other ‘extra treats’ as only you can provide.

How to Prepare a ‘Proper’ Bath for Her

Brad, (and you may already realise this!) a bath is not just filling the tub with hot water and pouring some bubble bath solution in it. If you’re going to do this, do it right and create the perfect ambiance for her.

First, close the windows and blinds and submerge the whole bathroom in darkness. Next, light some candles. They can be scented or not depending on what you use for the… scented oil you want to place on the burner or oil diffuser.

So for example, if you’re using vanilla oil on the oil diffuser, don’t use strawberry-scented candles as the heady, super sweet smells will most likely give you both a headache. Aim for one scent or like what’s mentioned above, use non-scented candles if you’re going to burn scented oils.

Also, don’t scrimp on the candles ok? The more, the merrier! You've seen scenes in movies which look amazing when there are plenty of lighted candles around...well, make this into a reality for her.

Next, put on some soothing music and make sure it’s not too loud or too soft. To test this, turn the music on and go into the bathroom and close the door a bit. Check if the music level is just right. Some ambient tunes or atmospheric new age type music is always fantastic. My favorite is the old school stylings of Enigma, for instance.

Next, make sure everything you need is within reach. It’s not good if you break the sexual massage all the time by running out of the bathroom! Plus, it’s not good for the overall warm temperature in the bathroom. Just put everything you need on a tray and set this on the floor or on a small chair. Once you've started the touching and massage, try not to break contact.

Consider a few edible treats. A glass of wine or champagne and a platter of crackers and cheese are sexy and light enough fare to add to the intimacy and pleasure , and will stretch out the sexual massage and turn it more into a shared and fun event.

Sexual Massage Moves in the Bath

For starters, let her soak in the bath for about 5 to 10 minutes just to loosen her tight muscles and relax. Leave her be for this time. Don’t join her in the bath just yet. Attend to any needs or request she has to help create the perfect environment.

Start sensually massaging her while you’re still outside the tub. Sit on the edge or pull up a chair and use a wooden massage roller and move this along her body. Alternatively, some light strokes will help set the tone.

You can also position yourself at the top edge of the tub so you can massage her neck. Slip your hands under her shoulders and then draw them up and out, pressing firmly. Knead her shoulders slowly, yet firmly.

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Feel free to shampoo her hair too. The pressure of your hands on her scalp in combination with the soft suds of the shampoo will feel great and act as another style of massage. Besides, this is the beauty of a sexual massage in the bathroom, no cares for the all the water and soap that might spill on the floor. It may be good for a light laugh anyway, and that is part of the main point of doing this, to relax and enjoy each others company.

Now, without breaking your massage strokes, climb into the bathtub and join her. Sit behind her with her back to yours (sort of like spoon to spoon). Continue massaging her shoulders and work your way to her lower back. And now comes the best part… massaging her front.

Start by reaching over and cupping her breasts (gently!). You can use the soap suds or better yet, put more soap gel on your hands and start massaging her breasts as if you were trying to create a lot of lather! Build momentum like a pressure cooker.

Tease her by massaging her breasts, moving to her shoulders, going back to her breasts, going down and rubbing her stomach, back to hear breasts again. Each time, be a bit more daring and go lower and lower down her front. For instance, just massage or ‘clean’ her belly button with your finger and then go back to her breasts before going down to her pubic area. Whatever you are doing, do it slowly.

Here’s a naughty tip for you: unless your woman has gone Brazilian (i.e., has had all her pubic hair shaved off) you can try ‘shampooing’ her hair down there! Simply apply the same strokes you would as if you were washing her hair. Again, gentle. Tickle and tease her between her legs.

As a climax to this hot tub sexual massage, you may go ahead and give some attention to her ‘sweet spot’. Remember, this should be part of the sexual massage, and should not be seen as the sole purpose of the massage. Lightly massage her clit and use your fingers to caress her labia. If she feels open and inviting, and you should be able to gauge this by her reaction, insert and finger or two into her vagina and slowly work them in and out, focussing on the upper inner wall where her G-spot lives. Build up slowly and let her guide the pace and duration of your finger fuck. She may strive towards achieving an orgasm, or simply want to enjoy some pleasure as a top off to the lovely bath massage.

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