What Is Your Biggest Turn On During Sex?

My wife and I sometimes love to discuss our fantasies before and often even during sex to turn the heat up. Nothing quite like good communication in a relationship, and timing is everything!

Me and hubby have got into fantasizing too Marc. We've been together since school and married in 1995 so I think we both needed somethnig a little 'extra'. Since we started sharing our fantasties with each other they have got more graphic, even taboo.

The most weird thoughts arouse us both, things that years ago would have turned me off.

Maybe the older you get, the more your mind opens up to sexual variety.

I'm not sure if you opened this thread inviting people to tell their fantasies or just to ask if people have them. Therefor, I'll wait untill I know for sure before I tell all!

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My partner and I feel the same way as the previous two posters. We love to add fantasy talk into our sex because of how much hotter it makes us. I love to hear my partner talk about taking multiple cocks at once which is something that really turns her on. She loves the idea of many male hands upon her, touching her all over. Putting on a show for me and then inviting me in. She loves me talking about how I would also love to see her with another woman and how much I would to be kissing her while another woman rides my cock. It really takes our sex over the top. Not something we do everytime. But nice turn up occasionally.

I like to say things which everyday me would never say and this shocks my boyfriend, like "fuck my hot pussy" as we are about to do it, or "let me suck your huge cock til you cum in my mouth". I am quite reserved during the day and very mild mannered, so the change and release it gives us adds to our thrills.

I love to have my hands tied above my head and be strongly restrained as my lover has powerful sex with me and looks me in the eye. I fight sometimes to break free but know I cannot and this is very passionate for me. I also love my lover to be above my chest and thrusting his hard penis into my mouth while my hands are tied. This is very submissive and very erotic for me. Being restrained increases my pleasure but I cannot explain why.

You are so beautifully positive and hot. I love fucking you.

John - your partner sounds just like me - I usually initiate the dirty talk, I think my husband likes to take his lead from me on this but he plays along very well. I like to ask him if he would like to suck another woman's tits while I ride him or variations on this theme. Its a great turn on but also good to know where fantasy ends and reality starts as I would never share my husband with anyone. I also talk about being with another woman which is a huge, huge turn-on but again I know it is just a big fantasy. When I started doing this I felt that maybe I was abit weird but reading everyone else's experiences made me realise that I am totally normal and it is liberating to feel that loving sex is okay. We have been together for 13 years and sex is still great, maybe not as often as a few years ago but there are still time we can surprise each other at our intense passion.