Answer:

Hi May, and thank you for your question. The G-Spot (named after the German gynaecologist who first identified the area, Ernst Grafenberg) is like the last frontier of human sexuality…mysterious, enticing and yet largely unconquered. No mistakes about it, however, it does hold untapped treasures just waiting to enjoyed.

The G-Spot itself is actually a bean shaped group of nerve endings located about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of the cervix. The reason I say “about” is because the location can slightly vary from woman to woman, but it is always in that general vicinity 2-3 inches inside the vagina on the front or upper wall.

The actual exposed area of the G-Spot is only around the size of a quarter, which is obviously why it is so hard to find sometimes. It can also be covered by a thin layer of tissue and sometimes be set deeper into the vaginal wall, which often doesn’t help matters.

But do take the effort to try and find it…it will definitely be worth your while! G-Spot orgasms, in my experience, feel completely different to clitoral or vaginal orgasms. They are more deep seeded and slower to come on, but when they do hit they will curl your toes and put a dozen hyperactive butterflies in your belly. Warmth generates from the G-Spot itself and shots through your body from top to toe like surging electricity. And best of all, this inner tidal wave of liquid pleasure it creates lasts longer than any other orgasm.

So now you know what it is and what you might expect, but how do have yourself a G-Spot Orgasm? There are three methods I have found to work:

1) Probably the easiest way is by using a specifically designed adult toy like the Natural Contours Liberte or the Absolutely Angelic G Spot Vibrator. These pleasure machines have been engineered specifically with G-Spot exploration and stimulation in mind, and are both easy to use and comfortable. Both devices have the upward curve needed to really find and hit the spot with wave after wave of vibration. There is no sure thing when it comes to having a G-Spot orgasm, but to be honest this is probably the most accessible and likely method.

2) Good old masturbation is another method which can provide G-Spot delight. Lay on a bed or flat surface with your knees bent, legs slightly spread and feet flat on the floor. Try sliding a pillow or rolled up towel underneath your bottom to help prop you up and give you easier access to your intended target. Start by using the thumb on your preferred hand to massage you clit; this will help warm and loosen you up somewhat, apart from feeling spectacular of course. Next, slowly insert two fingers from the same hand inside your vagina, facing upwards, and focus on working a gentle side to side motion 2-3 inches along your upper wall. You may need to press a little upwards at some point to locate the extra sensitive area which is the G-Spot. It may feel slightly more ridged than the rest of your vagina, or, because it engorges with blood and somewhat swells (like a penis), it may feel like an extra fleshy area. But you will know it when you find it!

3) Doggy style sex, where you are on all fours and entered from behind at an angle where the penis is rubbing down directly against your upper wall, can be an amazing way to add some G-Spot bliss to sex. There are no guarantees this will hit the mark, however, especially if your partner isn’t specifically targeting your pleasure zone.

There a few things to keep in mind when giving your G-Spot some love and affection:

1) Always make sure you have gone to the bathroom first, as the G-Spot is located directly beneath the urethral sponge, and when you make first contact you may feel an urgent need to pee!

2) Before masturbation, make sure you have trimmed your nails. Need I say more??

3) Don’t be afraid to use some lubrication, preferably water or silicon based, to allow easier and smoother manoeuvrability, and more intense sensations because of the extra friction you can create.

4) The G-Spot is not like a starter button on a lawnmower which you only have to press once for an instant joyride. It needs gentle, sustained and consistent stimulation to switch on and fully come to life.

There was once widespread debate about whether the G-Spot actually existed at all, but recent medical evidence and overwhelming anecdotal (and personal) experiences seems to knock this argument on the head for the affirmative. It is there, it’s just damn hard to find sometimes and stimulate effectively enough to allow the G-Spot orgasm to wash away any doubts forever for every woman.

They don’t say patience is a virtue for nothing. I hope this has helped May, and may your sex life be sent soaring to new heights by tapping the hidden wonder of your friendly, though shy, G-Spot!

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