A Good Spanking
Are there any other spanking enthusiasts around the Erotic Woman universe? Although I haven't actively given a good spanking for several years, it is something I have enjoyed throughout my adult life. Mostly giving and sometimes receiving, with hand or paddle. Not too severe, but certainly enough to feel. There should be more spanking material in this wonderful site to satisfy an urge that I dare say many people, men and women, would feel. Can one become too old to spank or be spanked? I guess that is the position I find myself in at present.

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My first husband would smack my ass until it was red raw, and I would squeal with pain AND pleasure. He was a very dominant and aggresive man so he did it for his own pleasure, not mine, but I loved it anyway and the days afterwards when I could barely sit down would remind me of my submission and the hard sex that would follow. It sometimes would get out of hand however, which is one of the reasons we seperated.
My current husband is far too timid, although I continue to cajole him into trying to be adventurous.
It is hard to exactly explain the pleasure of being spanked because i don't conciously get off as being a submissive.
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Do you have to be a submissive to get into being spanked? I didn't think the two were necessarily linked?
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There is not a certain link there to be sure; just because someone enjoys spanking doesn't mean they are a submissive for certain. They may enjoy the sensation, it may heighten their arousal, they may love th feeling of being put over the knee or bending over. There are many reasons people enjoy this without being submissive to a dominant master from my experience.
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It just feels good. It adds an element of pain to the pleasure, it's not terribly mainstream, it seems a little dangerous and it's pretty exhilarating. I love it.
I'm not sure that I'm really either sub nor dom. I can lean either way depending upon the encounter and my mood, but for me, spanking is just pleasurable no matter what. I'm not talking about weird over the knee stuff, but a hard smack on the ass during doggy style or anal sex is amazing!
Jaynie