7 Great Reasons To Enjoy Sex Toys!

Sex toys have come along way since the feathers and bizarre leather rubbing belts used by women in previous centuries. Don’t get me wrong; I’m sure those sex aids had their strong points (and bought smiles to the faces of thousands of our ancestors…feathers especially can still come in very handy for some light tickle fun), but technology has helped modern women take their sex lives to previously unattainable levels.

But are sex toys for everyone? The answer is of course subjective, but in the humble opinion of this author can be categorically summed up with one word – YES!

No matter what your age, level of sexual experience or self confidence, sex toys can enhance a woman’s sense of sensuality and sexual empowerment. But they can also do a lot more than just that.

Creating your own “Goody Collection” of specially selected adult products could just be one of the tickets to a more fulfilling sex life!

Let’s take a look at the top 7 great reasons why.

1) Get In Touch With Yourself

Exploring your body and learning what feels good, deciding what you like and what you don’t like will help you become more comfortable with yourself as you work out your own boundaries. Being in tune with your body will improve your sense of self; knowing what does and doesn’t press your buttons will help you develop your sexual confidence.

2) Take A Timeout!

People use a variety of techniques to relax and slow down. In today’s society where we face constant pressure and relentless stress, the ability to dissolve tension is absolutely vital. I remember when I was in high school coming home after a horrible day; I felt so tense that I was a crying wreck. I lay on my bed and turned some music on (I think it was Duran Duran…eek, showing my age), and somehow or other I ended up masturbating to the delightful thoughts of kissing Johnny Depp, who was at the time setting the screen alight in 21 Jump Street. Anyway, sordid details aside, after I had finished, I remember looking at myself in the mirror and thinking that things really weren’t that bad. I pondered how my mental state could have changed so dramatically in the space of an hour, and the answer was clear. That was a great learning experience which I have never forgotten. The bottom line is that masturbation is a great way to burn nervous tension right away, and sex toys will help make it an even more enjoyable experience.

3) Sex Toys Are Always Ready To Go!

How many couples do you know struggle to get into sexual sync? It is all too common unfortunately. You are feeling sexy, and he’s too busy watching the game, meaning you are on your own once again. So what do you do? Go and read a magazine, water the plants, walk the dog? Heck no! Sex toys have one purpose; their sole mission is ensuring your sexual bliss. They love their job too, they really do. Anytime of the day or night, no matter what the weather is like, or what’s on TV, they are awaiting your call. When you are in the mood, so are your toys, and they always love to play.

4) They Can Stay Up All Night Long

One of the biggest discrepancies between men and women is with our sexual timings. Women (not all the time of course) tend to take some time to warm up, where as men are often come and gone in the blink of an eye (again, not all of the time of course). But your toys can go as long as you want; you dictate the length of your play sessions. No arguments, no competition with his friends or TV, no uncomfortable moments when you want some extra loving and he’s had enough. And if he finishes before you are done, let him go and grab your toy to really complete the job to your satisfaction.

5) Make Those Lonely Trips More Fun!

I have a girlfriend who travels a lot with her work. She is married to a man she adores, and misses him intensely while she is away. Several months ago we were chatting, and I suggested she do a little shopping for a travelling companion (she went for the Pocket Rocket…small size, powerful vibration). Now when she is away she makes a phone call when she is warm and snug in her hotel room, and enjoys some wicked phone sex with the aid of her new found toy. It makes her a little less lonely, and also has brought them closer together because they are expanding their sexual boundaries. Win-win situation. Sex toys are generally easy to transport, come in a range of sizes and capabilities, and will always be ready to add a little spice to your travels when needed to break up those lonely or dull moments.

6) Add Some Zing To Your Relationship

Sex toys give you the ability to add some variety into your sexual relationship with your partner. It is always worthwhile discussing things first to make sure they are okay with including toys in your lovemaking, rather than just whipping out a vibrator mid-romp, handing it over and demanding pleasure. That might be a little testing on their feelings. But if your partner is up for it, then there are endless possibilities for you both! Whether it is mutually enjoying a vibrator (lightly teasing his balls will deliver untold pleasure for him), using a toy designed for couples (like the famous Diving Dolphin) or buying a piece of equipment such as a swing or tie-up set, you are only limited by your imaginations. And you can guarantee that it will be a lot of fun and provide some laughs while you go about it. How can that not be good for a relationship?

7) They Are Fun!

Most importantly of all, sex toys feel incredibly good. They can deliver amazing feelings and sensations that you just can’t get any other way whenever you want it.

With the advancing designs and capabilities, can you imagine the possibilities which lie ahead? Please don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that sex toys are the be all and end all to the detriment of the best sex toy of all, as in a partner. But, as tools designed for your pleasure, why wouldn’t any modern woman not want at least one or two? Just having the option to use them when the mood strikes is incredibly empowering.

These days, more women do have them than don’t, so social taboos are slowly diminishing and society itself is becoming more enlightened. They are a sure fire ticket to hours of exciting fun and self-discovery!

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